Did you know that our identity, how we see ourselves, is the most important factor that drives our success or failure?
Our mindset is the most important piece of equipment in our career, in our business, and in our life as a whole.
So, what is our identity? Our identity is the sum of our thoughts and beliefs about ourselves: how we look, our capabilities, our intentions, our expectations, our decisions, and our memories.
Our identity will determine how we show up in this world.
One way to help shape our identity is to watch our language. Our identity is reflected by the thoughts that we express in our words. So, we have to watch our language and listen to ourselves as this will show the rules we live by which are often rules that have been downloaded to us from our parents, family, friends, teachers, supervisors, environments, etc.
We have to use our discernment to decide which of these “rules” may not serve us anymore.
Most days, my language sounds like this:
· I get to
· I can
· I want to
· I choose to
· Anything is possible
· There is always a way
Let’s create a NEW set of rules that support our visions and our truest identity, making it not only possible but achievable!
Keep on SLAYin' until you can't SLAY no more!
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Rochelle "SLAY Queen" Hemingway
CEO, #SLAY TO SUCCE$$, LLC
Author | Speaker | Coach | USAF Veteran
I work with military women leaders who are currently serving, facing retirement, or have retired that are struggling with their identity and limiting beliefs through group and one-on-one coaching, taking a deep dive into their fears and insecurities to empower them to SLAY (to kill it, to dominate it, and to nail it) their lives, without sacrificing health, relationships, career or happiness.