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“I Don’t Even Know What Looks Good On Me Anymore.” : It's Not Too Late To Reinvent Yourself Through Your Wardrobe
- Rochelle "SLAY Queen" Hemingway
- Jul 23
- 4 min read
Have you ever stood in front of your closet, arms crossed, clothes everywhere, and whispered to yourself, “What even is my style anymore?”
I was you.
— After I lost 60 pounds...I didn't recognize my new body.
— After I had our son at 37...I didn't recognize my energy.
— After I retired from the military...I didn't fully recognize my purpose and presence.
— After I received the doctor's report of hormonal changes...I didn't recognize that I was getting older (LOL).
Each time, my body changed. My life changed. And the pieces that used to feel like "me"?
They didn’t hit the same. The dress I once killed in suddenly felt off. The suits that once made me feel bossed-up just... didn’t fit the vibe anymore. Not just physically, emotionally.
And guess what? That disconnect is normal. It’s part of the transition. But what’s not normal, and what we are absolutely NOT doing anymore,
is staying stuck in confusion while dimming our own light.
Let’s break this down:
Why Do You Feel Lost in Your Style Right Now?
Your body has shifted (hello to motherhood, weight loss, hormone changes, aging, and ALL the things).
Your lifestyle has evolved (new job, new pace, new business, new advocacy, new role, new season).
Your identity is expanding (who you were then is not who you are now).
So of course, those old outfits feel off. You’re not her anymore. This is a sign that you’re absolutely ready to become BOLDER, ELEVATED, AND REFINED!
Your next-level style is waiting for you. And you don’t have to figure it out alone.
That’s where the Brand Boldly: Elevate Your Impact™️experience comes in.
I take you from confusion to clarity — FAST! (because we have more days behind us than we do ahead of us, so let's not waste any time ruminating over this).
Through expert body type analysis, silhouette alignment, color strategy, and lifestyle-driven styling, we rebuild your entire look based on where you are now and where you're headed.
Because style is not just about clothes. It’s about identity, confidence, presence, and image management. It’s how you introduce yourself before you even speak in-person or in these digital streets.
Here's a taste of the Brand Boldly: Elevate Your Impact™️transformational experience:
3 Quick Style Tips to Help You Reconnect with YOU
#1: Your Closet is Not a Museum
If it doesn’t fit or feel aligned, release it. Stop letting those “someday” clothes shame you every morning. Clear the clutter, make room for your now.
#2: Match the Mirror, Not the Memory
Dress the woman you are today. Don’t style yourself like a past version. She's beautiful, yes — but you’re evolving. Let your wardrobe reflect that power.
#3: Build an Outfit Formula That Serves YOU
If you’re busy, don’t waste energy figuring out what works every morning. Create a power outfit formula that you can remix with ease and confidence.
I see you. And more importantly? I help you see YOU. The radiant, bold, in-her-season version of you. That’s what we unlock in the Brand Boldly: Elevate Your Impact™️transformational experience — not just outfits, but the energy you bring when you walk into any room.
Ready to feel like “THERE. SHE. IS.” when you look in the mirror?
If you're looking for a different way to step into your next chapter with clarity and confidence, email me at info@slaytosuccess.com the words "I'M READY!", and I'll send you more information on the Brand Boldly: Elevate Your Impact™️transformational experience. To learn more about me, go to www.slaytosuccess.com.
Let’s style the woman you’re becoming — with intention, impact, and confidence.
SLAY To Success®️Publication Resources:
SLAY To Success®️: A mini autobiography about my 30-year military career and how the word "SLAY" shifted my entire life. Grab your copy➡️https://a.co/d/3spEF2M
Elevate Your Image: Personal Brand Strategies Guidebook: A mini guidebook about how to use personal branding to accelerate success in your personal and professional life. Grab your copy➡️ https://a.co/d/iDrXHhZ
Own Your Power: Build a Memorable Personal Brand to Gain Opportunities for Women Over 40 & Beyond: A mini guidebook for women over 40 & beyond who are looking to learn how to leverage personal branding to attract versus chase down desired and deserved opportunities. Grab your copy➡️https://a.co/d/f7dHoq3
BASS GO BOOM | Vol 1-Bouncing Back: 10 Powerful Stories of Resilience: An anthology of 10 veterans sharing their stories of unwavering courage, strength, and resilience in the face of adversity. My story is featured in Chapter 4. Grab your copy ➡️https://a.co/d/2SwDGSu
The Business Behind the Business: Real Entrepreneurs Share Real Struggles, Real Success: An anthology of 28 entrepreneurs sharing the good, bad, and real words of wisdom, best practices, and inspiration unlike you will find anywhere else. My story is featured in Chapter 4. Grab your copy➡️https://a.co/d/0xA5wAP
Keep on SLAYin' until you can't SLAY no more🔥
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